Things that matter

Posted by Trina Rae Thursday, June 28, 2012 0 comments

I am a strong proponent for choosing battles wisely--that is, ones that I have the energy for and ones that matter.  Interestingly, what I felt mattered with Franny when she was three years old doesn't necessarily carry over to what I feel matters with Delaney at the same age.

I would never have allowed Franny to wear her dance leotard out and about for errands.  I also would never have let her bring a toy out of the car into the outside world.  And, as I look at this picture of Delaney, taken on our way to pick up Cole from camp, I have to admit I probably would have also insisted on pulling her hair back (since she needs her hair cut) and I'm not sure if I would have let her wear those shoes.  

But, this is Delaney, not Franny.  It's not that I'm necessarily more relaxed with her, I just don't have the same perception of what really matters.  She chooses what she wears and there are very few cases where I will override her.  And yes, we do get some looks from time to time.  But again, that's not something that I think matters, anymore.  And, she may lose her horse or accidentally leave it behind, and if she did that's okay--it would be a great learning opportunity for her.  As for the hair, I don't even try, as I can't possibly win that one.  

I know limits and structure are important to kids, and my kids have plenty of appropriate ones.  But, fortunately I am a little wiser, as well.  Lucky Delaney!





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Baking with the kids

Posted by Trina Rae Sunday, June 24, 2012 0 comments

While Franny was spending some one-on-one time with her grandparents, Cole, Delaney, and I took our way-too-ripe bananas and made banana bread.   It was a lot of mess, a lot of fun, and a lot of attempted tasting.  After explaining the 'no fingers in the batter' rule way too many times, they finally got their chance.  Once the bread was in the oven, they were free to taste what remained in the bowl as much as they liked.  And, they maximized it, for sure!





Sleeping bag for Bug

Posted by Trina Rae Friday, June 22, 2012 0 comments

 For her birthday, Delaney was fortunate to be given very thoughtful gifts.  Among them was this Tinkerbell sleeping bag from her grandparents.  She has played with it every day and has slept in it every night since her birthday.  She twists and turns in all sorts of positions when she sleeps, so I was trying to persuade her to go back to sleeping with her blanket, but she was insistent about sleeping in her new sleeping bag.  It's hard to predict what is going to be a big deal to a three year old, but this is definitely it!


Fathers Day

Posted by Trina Rae Wednesday, June 20, 2012 0 comments

On Fathers Day we all wanted to plan an outing for Rick to let him know how special he is to all of us. Franny's idea was a hike, which everyone was into, especially since we haven't done one for quite a while.  We had high hopes for a hike on the Gorge, but the morning got away from us and we headed out to Tryon Creek State Park instead.  But, everyone still had a great time with a picnic lunch and the hike.  And, most importantly, we were able to wish Rick a happy Fathers Day and let him know how much we love him and appreciate all he does for us.  We are very blessed!



The cake

Posted by Trina Rae Monday, June 18, 2012 0 comments

The pictures don't do this beautiful cake justice.  It was incredible!  The hand-made fondant flowers and leaves were so detailed and shimmery.  Pixie Hollow couldn't have produced a better cake!  Thank you Auntie Noelle!!!





A Tinkerbell party!

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This weekend, Delaney had her long-awaited Tinkerbell party!  She has waited and waited, watched Franny and Cole have their parties, and finally Saturday was her big day.  It was wonderful to see what a big deal it all was to her.  From seeing her gorgeous cake decorated by Auntie Noelle, to opening presents and celebrating with family, as well as her best friend Audrey, Delaney had the time of her life!  There was no question she knew it was her special day, and she loved it.  And, to top it off, it was warm enough to set up the pool!  It was a perfect party for this very special little girl.  









Last day of school!

Posted by Trina Rae Wednesday, June 13, 2012 0 comments

Today was the last day of school for both Franny and Cole.  They both had great years, worked very hard, and are looking forward to some much-deserved free time, as well as a couple of camps.  And, as much as they are both thrilled about their breaks, Delaney is going to be just as happy--if not more--when she realizes her two best friends are going to home all summer!




Playmates

Posted by Trina Rae Tuesday, June 12, 2012 0 comments

For the last couple of months, Delaney has been enjoying weekly playdates with a sweet neighbor girl. They are just a few months apart, so the two get along really well.  Being the oldest, she has introduced Delaney to some things that girls do at their age that Delaney has never done, and Delaney has introduced her to some things that girls do if they have an older sister!  It's been a fun relationship to watch develop.  This week, we went on a little hike here in the neighborhood, walked down to the creek and threw some rocks off the bridge, and then walked home.  A simple, little outing, but very fun for Delaney who loves playing with her friend!




June Jubilee

Posted by Trina Rae Monday, June 11, 2012 0 comments

 This weekend, Franny participated in the June Jubilee at the Oregon Gymnastics Academy.  The annual event allows the kids to perform and demonstrate the skills they work on during classes--trampoline, beams, bars, and floor work.  Unfortunately, I was out of town during her performance, so I wasn't able to see her.  But, she did a fantastic job and fortunately Rick took these pictures to document her event.






Ladybug Ball

Posted by Trina Rae Wednesday, June 6, 2012 0 comments

Today, families were invited to Franny's class to watch their Ladybug Ball performance.  Similar to the Fairy Tale Theater from earlier in the year, it was a reader's theater and musical about crickets, spiders, butterflies, ladybugs, ants, and honeybees.  For the last month, they have been studying insects, so this was a fun way for them to combine their science and reading skills in a fun way.  The reader's theater consisted of the stories The Grasshopper and the Ant and The Grouchy Ladybug.  In addition to the two stories, all kids participated in groups that read facts about their insect group--Franny was in the butterfly group.  It was a wonderful performance, and I was so proud of Franny and her reading.  Unlike at the previous performance, I could hear her clearly as she spoke in front of the audience!  And, it was clear she was having a lot of fun with it.  She has grown a lot in this class academically and socially, and I am a little sad to see the year winding down these last few days.  But, she is such a hard working student, I know next year will have great things in store for her, as well.

 Franny's class:  honeybees, butterflies, crickets, spiders, ants, and ladybugs--oh my!

The butterflies reading 

 The butterflies flying

The smile I love

School Carnival

Posted by Trina Rae Tuesday, June 5, 2012 0 comments

 The kids had a great time at Franny's school carnival last Friday.  They all had their hair painted, and Cole even had his spiked up in a mohawk--very unlike him!  They had pizza, played games--including an Angry Birds game--jumped around in the bounce house, and rode the train.  Franny spent most of her time with her best friend Lily, while Cole and Delaney explored the carnival together.  I spent a crazy 45 minutes making cotton candy at my volunteer station...it is harder than it looks!  But, it was a great evening for everyone, and it was probably the first big event that makes everyone realize the last day of school is fast approaching.  What a great year it has been!




Beautiful toes

Posted by Trina Rae Sunday, June 3, 2012 0 comments

This weekend, Franny and I had some one-on-one time getting our toenails done.  This was Franny's first time getting a real manicure, so she was very excited!  She chose an alternating pattern of turquoise and purple nail polish.  She later told Cole:   You put your feet in water--but you can't splash!  It's so funny what details resonates with the kids.  I told her we would go again either before or after our upcoming Canada trip.  She is already talking about it--I think this trip was a big hit!