Sibling dynamics

Posted by Trina Rae Saturday, January 16, 2010

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There is something about this picture that I just find comical.  It was just one of a series of the kids playing together.  Looking at it now, it appears as though Franny is authoritatively explaining something to the very captive audience of Delaney and Cole.  Whether or not that is the case here, it is definitely something that occurs on a regular basis at our house. More or less, she has been the first to experience a lot of things, and she likes to pass on her “expertise” to Cole. Delaney is definitely fascinated by her older sister, but of course isn’t subjected to this, yet.   Also quite comical, however, is that Cole will frequently listen, but will also sometimes not, which can be extremely irritating to Franny.  She is such a great big sister—she can be supportive, nurturing, and attentive.  But, she also likes to be in control.  Whether it is what, when, or how they play, Franny has a definite idea of how things should be done.  It will be interesting to see how these sibling dynamics evolve over time, including how Delaney will respond to her sister’s guidance.  As I watch them struggle to sort through their differences I can’t help but wonder how they will change and mature and what their relationships will be like in the future.  Of course, I hope they are very close and have very positive relationships, but ultimately it is up to them to define what the Trio will become.

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